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5 Signs You’re In Love With A Commitment-Phobe

A Fear Of Commitment; A Walk Away From The Aisle

  • There quick texts don’t match your novels.

Texting the one you are with just doesn’t quite seem to match. What I mean when I say this is that you may type about how you are feeling and the day you had, a mini novel. However, their response could be short almost feeling like an annoyed tone that you are sharing so much like, “nice.” or “K.”

  • Vague schedules are a red flag.

Does your partner always seem busy? You try and try but no schedule seems to work. Are they are avoiding you or are they genuinely THAT busy? Most likely a vague and always busy schedule is a red flag for commitment-phobes. Most likely they do not want anything permanent so their schedule is the same way.

  • PDA is just not their thing.

Every time that you are out on the town you reach for their hand but something seems to pull them away from you. It is as if he doesn’t want to show the world you are together because he doesn’t want to be tied down to JUST you. It’s a classic case of commitment-phobia. They have a fear of letting down the walls to show everyone they are in a committed relationship.

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  • They are full of excuses.

“I can’t do this, I can’t do that, I am busy that day, Oh my cousin is in town.” A list of excuses that seem to begin sounding like a broken record. Why though? Do they really not want you to be with them or are they just playing you? Nope, it is a “it’s not you, it’s me,” situation. They are afraid to commit and you are just the one that gets the short end of the stick.

  • Where is their bestie?

Usually, there is a right hand man in your man’s life. But for some reason he doesn’t have much of any friends at all let alone a best friend. That is another big red flag, if your man can’t hold a bestie how can he hold down a relationship?

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