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7 Reasons Why You Are Still Single

Whether it be by choice, or by the way of the universe, you have found yourself single. Singledom seems like a bleck fate filled with single person dinner’s and lonely holidays curled up with your cats by the fireplace. Fear not! There are reasons why you are still single and by the end of this article you will understand what to do to make a change and find a partner.

Reason 1: You Are Swamped.

Reason 2: You Value Your Independence.

“My alone feels so good, I’ll only have you if you’re sweeter than my solitude.” — Warsan Shire

Only until you are comfortable with your solitude are you ready for someone to be a part of your life.

Reason 3: You Need To Figure YOU Out.

“You do not need to be loved, not at the cost of yourself. The single relationship that is truly central and crucial in a life is the relationship to the self. Of all the people you will know in a lifetime, you are the only one you will never lose.” -Jo Courdert

Some people believe that you need love to be happy but that is not always the case. You do not need the love of another person to be happy. Find happiness within yourself first and then you may begin a love journey.

Reason 4: You Are Stuck On ______.

Reason 5: You Don’t Know What You Want.

“Being single used to mean that nobody wanted you. Now it means you’re pretty sexy and you’re taking your time deciding how you want your life to be and who you want to spend it with.” — Sex and the City

If you are single, understand that it is not because no one wants you. You are single because you are just a force of nature that has not met his or her match. You are strong, you are important, and you are wonderful. Your mate will find their way into your life when you least expect it. But only until the universe has found a viable adversary.

Reason 6: You Are Insecure With Your Body.

“Discover why you’re important, then refuse to settle for anyone who doesn’t completely agree.” -Fisher Amelie

You are incredible alone and discovering why you are so wonderful and important while you are alone is so very important to the formation of your self-confidence. Know your worth and understand why you deserve a great love.

Reason 7: You Haven’t Joined Hily Yet!

To be single is wonderful, but to be together is also wonderful. There is merit in both finding love within yourself and finding love among others. Joining the right online dating app or dating community can determine the success of your dating career. Hily will give you matches that play into all of your wants, needs, and must-haves in a mate. Other sites just don’t add up like Hily does.

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