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Are You Ready For A Serious Relationship?

A Few Ways To Check Yourself Before You Wreck Yourself

You Are Happy Being Single

You Want A Companion Not Completion

“Serial monogamists hop from one relationship to another, barely coming up for air in-between. They want someone to play the ‘role’ of a partner because they feel that they need another person to ‘complete’ them.”

You never want to be that person that “needs” someone. You are strong enough on your own and the only reason you should add a serious partner into your life is because you want love and companionship not because you need love and companionship.

You Have A Path In Life

Your Ex Is No Longer An Issue

“Only when she’s fully moved on from her ex and is able to see the break-up rationally will she be ready for a new relationship with you.”

You Begin Looking For A Soulmate Not Your Identity

“While a relationship cannot be your entire life, it does permeate its entirety. You become connected with their friends, families, hobbies, pets, living situations… and they become connected with yours.”

You Stop Having Sex On The First Date

Trust Issues Resolved

After reflecting on all of this information I hope that you can pull together the courage to realize whether or not you are ready for a serious relationship. Happy Dating!

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