How long does it take A MAN to get his 1st match on a dating site?
On the 1st login, if he’s lucky, but normally 1–3 days si the normal incubation period for a proper match to appear on a man’s profile. Why so long? Because women are picky. They have a list of can’ts and won’ts laid out in front of them and if you give off the slightest bit of bad juju in your profile she will swipe you gone so she can see other prospects on her list.
Part of the reason you are not getting likes could be that you have a lackluster self-presentation in your profile. Three ways to flare up your profile to make it more alluring and catchy are:
- Smile in your photos. Do not be so hard in the face just because you are a man. Smile, let her see you enjoy life and are open to new relationships.
- Make your intro fun and goofy to build a positive rapport with the ladies. No one likes a boring sad sack. It is ok to be yourself and crack a few jokes along the way. This will gain interest.
- Keep it simple. Sometimes less is more. Women swipe around so fast on these sites you need to have short, concise and accurate quips in your profile to make her wanting more.
How long does it take A WOMAN to get her 1st match on a dating site?
Oh, if you are a female, you’ll get plenty of likes right away.
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